Category: Companions
Insulin and Fat Cells
Insulin acts like a switch: high means store fat, low means release it. Research by Ludwig on the carbohydrate-insulin model shows chronically elevated insulin keeps fat cells in perpetual storage mode. When you eat, insulin signals fat cells to take up fatty acids and blocks their release. During fasting, the brake lifts. This companion covers insulin’s dual role, the fasting state, why meal timing matters, and practical applications including creating insulin gaps. (4 min read)
The Whole Person
Food is part of something larger. Research by Seligman on flourishing shows the whole, healthy you sleeps well, moves well, connects well, works meaningfully, rests intentionally, and yes — eats well. Eating well in isolation isn’t the goal; it’s one integrated piece of overall thriving. These prompts aren’t about becoming someone who thinks about food all the time, but someone who thinks about food appropriately and has a full life beyond it. This companion covers what the whole person attends to and what now. (3 min read)
Automatic Eater
Automatic healthy eating means the defaults — what you do without thinking — align with your goals. Research shows about 43% of daily behaviors are performed automatically. When habits are established, behavior requires minimal cognitive effort and there is nothing to resist. This companion explores what automatic healthy eating looks like (pre-decided environment, habitual timing, scripts for situations), the building blocks of automaticity, the transition period from effortful to natural, and maintaining habits through disruptions. (4 min read)
The Lunch Delivery
Delivery apps are minefields of endless choice and poor options. The design works against you: endless browsing, appetizing images, add-on prompts, deal psychology. Before opening the app, decide what you’ll order, then execute without browsing. Have pre-selected “healthy defaults” for your main restaurants. This companion covers the delivery trap, the pre-decision strategy, good options, and protecting yourself from the app’s design. (4 min read)
The Self-Talk
The voice in your head after a slip matters enormously. Research by Neff shows self-criticism triggers shame spirals that often lead to more eating. “You’re such a failure” doesn’t motivate; it demoralizes. Constructive self-talk — “That happened. What can I learn?” — supports recovery. Would you speak to a friend the way you speak to yourself? This companion covers the criticism spiral, what harsh self-talk sounds like, why it doesn’t work, and constructive alternatives. (3 min read)
The Hormonal Excuse
Hormones are real — menstrual cycles, cortisol, sleep-related changes genuinely affect hunger. Research by Dye found appetite increases in the luteal phase. Spiegel showed sleep deprivation alters ghrelin and leptin. But hormones explain, they don’t excuse. Even with increased hunger, you choose what and how much to eat. Blame is pointless; strategy is useful. This companion covers the hormonal reality, the problem with blame, what remains in your control, strategies for hormonal challenges, the both/and perspective, and excuse versus factor. (4 min read)
The Kitchen Lighting
If your kitchen is dark, cluttered, or uninviting, you’re less likely to cook and more likely to order delivery or grab processed food. The friction of an unpleasant cooking environment compounds over time. Simple improvements — better lighting, cleaner surfaces, functional organization — reduce the friction that stands between you and preparing healthy meals. This companion explores why kitchen pleasantness matters, the lighting factor, a five-point kitchen audit, simple improvements that make cooking more likely, and the investment perspective. (3 min read)
Effortless Eater
The effortless eater doesn’t white-knuckle their way through every food decision. They’re not constantly battling temptation or calculating whether they’ve “earned” something. They simply eat in a way that serves them — not because it requires heroic discipline, but because that’s who they are. When faced with a choice, they pick what aligns with their health without internal drama. This companion explores the myth of the naturally thin, how identity drives behavior, what the effortless eater actually does, and how to become one through small repeated choices. (4 min read)
Muscle Preservation
Because it doesn’t need to, and because muscle was too valuable to spend. During short-term fasting, the body has ample fat stores to burn and a review argues elevated growth hormone spares protein indirectly, by driving lipolysis so fatty acids rather than muscle supply the fuel. Burning muscle for fuel would be counterproductive: you need muscles to hunt and gather more food. The body preferentially burns fat and preserves lean tissue because that’s what keeps you alive. This companion explores the evolutionary logic, hormonal protection mechanisms, the research on fasting and muscle retention, when muscle loss does happen, and the…
The Birthday Cake
You have options: politely decline, have a small piece, or have a regular piece. None of these is inherently right or wrong, but the choice should be yours, made consciously, not defaulted into by social pressure. Consider: Do you actually want cake? Would having it add value to this moment? Can you have some without it triggering more? The skill is making a real decision, not being swept along by the situation. This companion explores the social pressure reality, a decision framework, the options available, what long-game players consider, and the identity frame. (4 min read)