Kindness after a mistake isn’t excusing it—it’s responding in a way that supports recovery. Research by Breines shows self-compassion increases self-improvement motivation. The kind one acknowledges what happened without brutality, maintains perspective without minimizing, returns to aligned behavior without drama. Kindness and standards aren’t opposites; kindness makes maintaining standards sustainable. This companion covers what kindness is and isn’t, why it works, and practicing it after mistakes. (3 min read)
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