The host is ordering for the table — you have less control than usual, but not zero. The relationship is the priority. Participate graciously while making quiet choices: eat the protein and vegetables, skip the bread, limit wine, leave food on your plate. You can be a gracious guest without being a passive eater.
This companion covers why host-ordered dinners are tricky, preparation, navigation during the meal, and when to speak up. (3 min read)