The Potluck

At a potluck, your contribution isn’t just a social obligation—it’s your insurance policy. Bring something substantial you actually want to eat: a large salad with protein, grilled vegetables, a meat dish. When your anchor dish is present, you’re guaranteed at least one good option regardless of what others bring.

This companion explores the potluck problem, the anchor dish strategy with specific ideas, how this shapes your plate, the social dimension, and what to do when you can’t control your contribution. (4 min read)

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