The All-or-Nothing Trap

This is the “what-the-hell effect”—one slip interpreted as total failure, licensing continued deviation. The thinking is wrong because one cookie and ten cookies are not the same. One hour outside your eating window and six hours outside are not the same. A stumble isn’t a fall unless you decide it is. The damage from the initial slip is minor; the damage from everything that follows is the real problem.

This companion explores how the what-the-hell effect works, the math that doesn’t support it, why the thinking happens, the correct response, the reset mindset, and building resilience. (5 min read)

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